Private investigators in the UK have discovered a series of facts about infidelity from their working experience and from what they have read and researched. The facts and possibilities are as follows:

  • Around 30-60 percent of spouses are prone to infidelity. This happens at some point or points of their married life. The most surprising fact is that they are mostly from conservative background who did not have much choice before they got married. Most of this cases end in divorce and with instability in life.
  • The children who grew up to become addicted to infidelity are mostly from clean background, specially business class or higher class (which never come to light). Only 2-3% of them are born of infidel parents from other classes. Testing DNA unfortunately reveals this fact.
  • It is hard to detect who is growing infidel, but easy to detect when one is.
  • Some cultures blame women to attract all sorts of infidel acts. They circumcise their girls, assures death as punishment for this. There the male are not subjected to anything infidel, they are a greater race.
  • Some cultures do not consider it as any crime at all.
  • Men are greater in number when infidelity is concerned. But women too are assuring their right in this game with their growing economically independent. So, many a culture (where most men enjoy extra sexual rights) does not allow women to grow economically independent.
  • In most cases this, infidelity, remains hidden till death for most individuals, and perhaps even after that.
  • Emotionally a person can be in true love with more than one person. This is quite natural. But their rationality hurts them like hell.
  • Women entering workforce becoming the target of infidel minded men. Women too are enjoying it. This office romance is a good source of infidelity.
  • Online exposure has made it easy to find partners and get infatuated.
  • In most cases, infidelity is not a preparation, it is a maze. Human cannot help it because of their natural animal nature.
  • Emotional infidelity hurts not less than physical infidelity, but it has a chance of recovery and coming back to fidelity.
  • Most people find somebody else they love/can love more (or feel in love with) after their marriages. Very unfortunate, but this is true.
  • It is by nature that man or woman feels attracted to many woman or man. If they can reason against it. But in most cases, they cannot help indulging.
  • Most women do not want to go for more than one man if they find love and prosperity in one.
  • Most men do not understand their wife or do not want to. Dissatisfied they always seek for opportunity.
  • As a counterpart of sexual attraction for several persons, jealousy always existed in the history of human sexual life.
  • Almost everyone feels for several persons and is afraid of opening their mouth.

Solutions:

  • “Going beyond sexuality” is the only option considered by many sufferers.
  • ‘If one has divine love for someone, one will never go infidel or feel jealous of whatever happens’ is believed by some Indian and French Divine-minds.