Infidelity is a curse. What marriage is for? Just for sex? No! This is more about peace, love, reliance and faith than sex. Sex is of course a basic need, but sex is most enjoyable when the above virtues are present.
For decades I have been living in UK and for years I have investigated cases on Marital Infidelity as a private investigator. From my experience I can say that if you are not happy with your partner, then it is always better to inform the thing to your partner.
What Actually Leads To Infidelity?
The answer is not so easy. But there are several factors like absence of true love, feeling of loneliness, gap of communication between the two minds, feeling of distantness, selfishness in one or both spouse, absence of morality, carelessness about how your spouse feels and thinks, lack of faith and confidence, Absence of the feeling that you can do everything for the person you married because he loves you and you love him, laziness, Financial instability, Lack of liveliness or life, absence of the sense of humor, complaining characteristics, inborn instinct to enjoy as many sexual partner as possible which play the vital role behind infidelity. There are other factors too. Some people believe that they have the inborn right to sex with whoever he or she likes. This thing also has some serious effects.
Terrible Effects Of Infidelity
Often people face serious physical and mental problems as side effects of infidelity issue. Murder, suicide are some of the common side effects of infidelity. In UK You can find hundreds of cases of murder and suicide which have a background of marital infidelity. SO we can easily imagine that in the UK it is a very serious issue.
Several Reasons Behind Infidelity
One of the main reasons is the lack of belief. In UK the people are becoming prey of depression very easily. These people cannot believe that they can do something in their life. They always feel unhappy and they find illegal sex as a way out. So lack of belief becomes a cause of infidelity.
But we should always look for a solution. One should know how to live for the other people. People should understand that to serve the humanity is the real purpose of life. So making people involved in several cultural, humanitarian organizations can bring effective results. In the UK there are several organizations which are doing this job successfully. This kind of involvement increases the trust of the people on human relationships. They can understand the value of relationship and they can also respect it.
It is true that infidelity always brings a great suffering with it and In the UK the infidelity problem is growing in an alarming rate. The private investigators of UK are really doing a great job to solve these problems. We are really happy that our private investigators have also got several national and international recognition for their success.